5 Reasons Wedding Planning Stinks

Peter and I at a friends wedding two months ago.

Peter and I at a friends wedding two months ago.

Today marks one more month until the wedding and I’m so tired of planning.

I will say i’m not as stressed as a lot of people said I would be or as bad as it was for a few of my friends who recently got married.

I am irritated though. And I don’t think there is any fixing that until the day AFTER the wedding. Hopefully the day of. Sooner? A girl can dream. Ha

If I’ve ever talked to anyone about their experience with planning their wedding they say one or two of a few things:

1. Having to limit their guests

Sometimes what can happen is you have a small budget and feel you need to limit the amount of people you invite.

I have a couple responses to this.

First of all-It’s your wedding so you get to invite whoever you dang well please. Sometimes people limit because they don’t want a big wedding, low cash, small venue…Yadda yadda. Honestly they’re all good reasons, but I will say one thing (and I only know from what others have told me and my experience with others weddings)..Not all of your guests will come. Life gets in the way one way or another. You might even get people who said they wouldn’t come or people who didn’t respond..Or the best one: the person who wasn’t even invited.

I will say that I’m glad I’m not limiting. The wedding isn’t about me, but the people in my life and celebrating this new chapter with me.

Well…It is about me a little bit ๐Ÿ˜‰

2. Low cash flow

It sucks. Weddings are ridiculously expensive. There was a conversation I had not too long ago with someone who said they hated their wedding cause they didn’t get to do what they wanted. I will say that one perk of a long engagement (and working the whole time) is that you get more time to pay for things a little at a time rather than having a baseball bat, nay, a bomb taken to your bank account.

My suggestion (and I’m by no means a guru at this stuff) would be to pick your deal breakers. Mine were photography and the dress. Those were the most important and I decided to make the other things, borrow things from people that they used for their wedding, or just forgo the whole thing. You get the idea.

Some people try to fix their problem by going into debt from their wedding. My advice. Just don’t. Save your money for a house, a car, something other than the thing that’s only gonna last one day.

3. The little things

This is the big thing for me. I’m so tired of all the little things I have to decide. In the end am I really going to care about the flowers at the alter? Probably not.

4. The big things

The catering, the helpers, the decorations, the dress, the photographer. Or even wedding party. This part was super easy for me until I had people actually ask me if they were in the wedding. I would have loved to have 20 bridesmaids…But at the same time the thought gives me a head ache.

5. EVERYTHING

Sometimes…Weddings just aren’t your thing.

I, for one, am in-between. I like certain things about wedding planning, but I definitely have things I could care less about.

 

I think a lot of the time people get so wrapped up in all this wedding stuff and lose sight of what really matters. I’ve heard a couple people express confusion about why someone would put themselves through it and I find I’m shocked.

Isn’t it obvious? I mean what got you in this situation in the first place?

The day Peter proposed he has been the biggest focus for me. In the end I could care less about the photography, the cake, the food, the decorations…Because what I should really focus on is the fact I get to marry this amazing guy who-amazingly enough, seems to really love me. (Ok…I know he loves me. Haha)

I’ll never understand why people don’t focus on the relationship part. Cause in the end you’re going to be married and you don’t get to live in wedding land anymore. You get to live life.

As a last thought though-If you are going to go all out by inviting a million guests, spend all your money, and do everything you’ve ever wanted..Try and enjoy it. It isn’t worth stressing out over so much. DELEGATE people!

 

I swear at some point, when I’m married probably, I will stop with the wedding posts, but I just had to get that off my chest.

Sorry about my long period of silence. Life got in the way. ๐Ÿ˜‰

 

Toodles.

Advertisements

Wretched Tooth

I will start off by saying-Woopsy!

Just so you know-I haven’t failed at taking a picture every day, I still have them…On my camera. However that’s where they have stayed and I’m afraid I’m so behind on posting that I might just start anew. Either that or I will be bombarding you all with a full blog of photos. Just without descriptions.

So here start the excuses.

First off-My dog died. The poor thing was in so much pain we finally had to let him go. It was really terrible actually. Not that it wouldn’t ever not be terrible to put down your pet/family member.

Work has also been taking up a huge amount of my time and energy. Not to mention being out of town as well as finishing my very last term of school (HECK YEAH!!)

After I got through that I thought “Hey! I’m really sucking at this blog thing, I should update” and then I ended up with a tooth problem.

Oh and not just ANY tooth problem. It was a stay in bed for 4 days, scream your head of, puke, have a seizure (meds), cry like a baby tooth pain.

Not to worry. $700 dollars later and a drill through my crowned tooth and its all better. Well-Except that i’m $700 poorer than I was before. Ha

April 4th-forgive the cliche bathroom mirror picture. I really hate taking them. However-Check out how long my hair is! I wanna chop it off. SO. BAD.

April 4th-forgive the cliche bathroom mirror picture. I really hate taking them. However-Check out how long my hair is! I wanna chop it off. SO. BAD.

On a different note-wedding plans are under way. My church threw a shower for me this last weekend and it was a blast. I’m really so blessed to have so many loving people in my life. I was so happy to see everyone.

I finally ordered paper for my invitations today and I hope to have them done really soon so I can send them out ASAP. I swear..I hate this part of the planning.

The corsages and such are mostly done and I finally (FINALLY) finished the bouquets. It was such a relief to be done with the wires poking my fingers. Instead I’m opting for burning them with hot glue.

Lately I’ve been on a TV show binge. Suburgatory, Call the Midwife, and Frasier. I recommend all of them. Just sayin’.

 

I should hit the hay as some would say. I’m quite exhausted and I have another long day ahead of me.

I swear (didn’t someone say not to make promises you can’t keep?) I will get better at this.

Live long and prosper.

100 Days Until Marriage

March 13th-100 days until I get married!

March 13th-100 days until I get married!

I’ve been engaged for 437 days. And my advice to you? Don’t wait so long…If you can help it.

And by the way-wanting more time to plan the wedding is NOT an excuse.

I had, and still have, every reason to marry Peter. When he got down on one knee and asked me to be his wife I said yes, very loudly, and I meant it.

So why did we wait?

Most believe that we are waiting because a family member was getting married or that I had other members of my family pushing me, for what I believe their own selfish reason, to wait longer. That isn’t it.

You probably won’t believe me, but there was only one reason; I wanted to finish school. Getting married was a big enough push to get me to finish what I had started. I was 7 classes away from finishing my associates degree and I had been coming up with reason upon reason to not go back.

When I get married I want to be married. I don’t want to waste my time, and money, on something I didn’t care about..Plus I know myself enough that if I got married and moved away I wouldn’t finish it and I would be really disappointedย in myself.

I’m not saying that school isn’t important and you shouldn’t do it, because it is, I’ve just never been passionate about it. Sure, if one day I have an epiphany and decide to go back to school for something, I will…But until then I don’t think there is a point in spending money to figure out what I want to do.

Don’t worry, I’m not naive enough to think that marriage will fix everything or that it will be the easiest thing I will ever do. I’m positive it will be the hardest and bestย thing I will ever do.

I’m not sure if this long engagement thing would be easier or harder if we lived closer together. As Christians, Peter and I believed that it was right to wait until after marriage to sleep, and live, together. So let’s be honest here…Being engaged for a long time is freaking hard. I’m so happy to wait for this though. Of course, I’m looking forward to SO many things when it comes to getting married and part of that is growing together and glorifying God in our relationship. Glorifying God is what we were created for, and God commands us to wait.

1 Corinthians 10:31ย “Whether, then, you eat or drink or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God.”

This last year or so has been really hard for the one reason I just mentioned, and so many others. I only get to see Pete on the weekends because of our work schedule and on the rare week night we’re able to meet in the middle somewhere. I have to keep telling myself to take things one day at a time and the time will fly by. And believe me, it truly has. I only have a few months left and I have so much to plan. Not just for the wedding (cause that only lasts one day), but for my life with the man I love.

I thank God every day for bringing him into my life and I will try really…really hard to enjoy these 100 days I have left with my family and friends. I can do it!

As for other countdowns-I have 5 days until this term is over and I graduate with my AAOT. YES!

All of that being said-I hope it didn’t sound like a long drawn out complaint, because that wasn’t my intent..Just musings. ๐Ÿ™‚

Thanks for reading. And sorry for all the mushy love stuff. Haha

Until next time!

I’m not very good at this…

So I’ll admit…I’m AWFUL at writing blogs. I don’t know why I keep putting it off until I have several photos to add. But-Let’s move on.

I’m not gonna spend a lot of time on this one cause I’m going to do another blog entry in a minute with just one photo..So here it goes.

February 25th-Yeah...One of those last minute ones. Almost forgot. But on another note-this stuff is delish!

February 25th-Yeah…One of those last minute ones. Almost forgot. But on another note-this stuff is delish!

February 26th-Milks favorite cookie? Pah! MY favorite cookie!

February 26th-Milks favorite cookie? Pah! MY favorite cookie!

March 27th-I got to watch these girlies (and their other siblings). So cute.

March 27th-I got to watch these girlies (and their other siblings). So cute.

February 28th-I went to Natalie's play again and got this cute photo of her and her best friend, Maggie.

February 28th-I went to Natalie’s play again and got this cute photo of her and her best friend, Maggie.

March 1st-The Bride to be at the salon getting her toes done. Isn't she beautious?

March 1st-The Bride to be at the salon getting her toes done. Isn’t she beautious?

March 2nd-Michael, Amy, Me, and Peter. It was such a fun wedding. And boy was I tired at the end of it.

March 2nd-Michael, Amy, Me, and Peter.
It was such a fun wedding. And boy was I tired at the end of it.

March 3rd-Natalie and my bouquets. And also the bouquet I caught. This time I really am next. :)

March 3rd-Natalie and my bouquets. And also the bouquet I caught. This time I really am next. ๐Ÿ™‚

March 4th-I have Natalie's Little Mermaid pin on my backpack.

March 4th-I have Natalie’s Little Mermaid pin on my backpack.

March 5th-My mom made Natalie and I cut these out.

March 5th-My mom made Natalie and I cut these out.

March 6th-I took my niece, Bella, to Davids Bridal (I hate that place) to get her a junior bridesmaid/flower girl dress.  This isn't the one. But gosh is she cute.

March 6th-I took my niece, Bella, to Davids Bridal (I hate that place) to get her a junior bridesmaid/flower girl dress.
This isn’t the one. But gosh is she cute.

March 7th-It used to be french tip...But after being in the water they went away.

March 7th-It used to be french tip…But after being in the water they went away.

March 8th-There was a time I could draw. And it isn't now. Unless I have a ruler.

March 8th-There was a time I could draw. And it isn’t now. Unless I have a ruler.

March 9th-At my works inservice they had a pie eating contest. It was really funny.

March 9th-At my works inservice they had a pie eating contest. It was really funny.

March 10th-I got more stuff to make from goodwill for the wedding. These are for the candy bar.

March 10th-I got more stuff to make from goodwill for the wedding. These are for the candy bar.

March 11th-Terrible late-night-last-minute-oh-my-gosh-I-forgot-to-take-a-picture picture. Anyway...I'm re-reading the Percy Jackson series.

March 11th-Terrible late-night-last-minute-oh-my-gosh-I-forgot-to-take-a-picture picture. Anyway…I’m re-reading the Percy Jackson series.

March 12th-It was a little brighter than this...But this is on my way home from work. So pretty...and warm!

March 12th-It was a little brighter than this…But this is on my way home from work. So pretty…and warm!

Plus, I figure since the photos have descriptions there’s no point in writing too much more.

See ya in a sec!

Cooped Up

Portland weather is completely unpredictable. This weekend has been awful.

What happened to when I was a kid and would go out in the snow and play for days? When things being cancelled was exciting and a relief? What happened to not caring about how cold it is or how icy the roads are?

Oh yeah-I grew up and got a job and a fiance.

Last week started off super busy with the last of my trainings and trying to get the lesson schedule done at work and then Thursday hit us with a big snow storm that left us stuck in the house until this afternoon and they skill cancelled school. It took me a half hour to dig my car (Penny) out of the driveway.

Saturday I got so sick of being in the house I decided to walk to the store and ended up carrying two cans of chili, a jug of milk, and hot dogs in a bag all the way back. Not the smartest idea I’ve ever had-but that’s alright.

I wouldn’t mind getting an unexpected weekend off from work and everything if it didn’t mean I couldn’t go anywhere. Sunday Portland issued a warning to not go outside because of the icy conditions.

You central states and maybe eastern states may laugh at our whining over here-but not only were we completely unprepared, but it isn’t the same here as it is everywhere else. Plus the ice makes it hard for anyone.

But with that being said-I’ll be the first to admit that some people here make a bigger deal out of it than there really needs to be, plus there are some terrible drivers here. Some people tend to be overly confident and that ends them in an accident.

Onto the challenge.

February 4th-I got Peter's ring not too long ago. I waited to post it because he didn't know I had gotten in yet.  Sorry-No picture yet, just a teaser! But it's perfect.

February 4th-I got Peter’s ring not too long ago. I waited to post it because he didn’t know I had gotten in yet.
Sorry-No picture yet, just a teaser! But it’s perfect.

Wedding plans are moving along nicely. I’m trying really hard to get the majority, if not all, of the planning done ASAP so I don’t have to stress and worry too much later.

February 5th-My morning meal for those 5am shifts.

February 5th-My morning meal for those 5am shifts.

Instant oatmeal is seriously my life saver. I have a bad habit of not eating most of the day. This has kept me from doing that too much. ๐Ÿ™‚

 

February 6th-I got the school and needed a drink of water. Only then did I realize the water had been completely frozen while in my car over night.

February 6th-I got the school and needed a drink of water. Only then did I realize the water had been completely frozen while in my car over night.

And so starts the snow storm.

February 7th-I was not happy to wake up to this. I wasn't too upset about the day off-but I didn't know it'd be the WHOLE weekend.

February 7th-I was not happy to wake up to this. I wasn’t too upset about the day off-but I didn’t know it’d be the WHOLE weekend.

This was just the beginning.

February 8th-Everything iced over just on time for my nieces 8th birthday party. Poor thing had to cancel her big plans and not as many people turned up. I'm glad we made it though.

February 8th-Everything iced over just on time for my nieces 8th birthday party. Poor thing had to cancel her big plans and not as many people turned up. I’m glad we made it though.

February 9th-this is what we got on Sunday morning. Everything was cancelled.

February 9th-This is what we got on Sunday morning. Everything was cancelled.

The ice ruined the weekend for sure. No visit with the fiance. The realization brought on some crying on my part for sure. Ha

February 10th-A box of letters I've collected since I was 8 (I even found a card from when I was born).

February 10th-A box of letters I’ve collected since I was 8 (I even found a card from when I was born).

All the negativity aside..There is one good thing to say about being cooped up-I got a LOT of cleaning and organizing done this weekend. I threw away a lot of stuff I didn’t need. There’s always more to do, but I’m glad I got done what I did.

Crazy part was I threw away a white garbage bag full of home work I’ve had since freshman year of high school. Crazy.

Well I’m sorry about the late post-I hope you all enjoyed your weekend!

 

So. Much. Partying!

Last week was completely insane-and this weekend was even crazier. I’ve been trying to keep myself sane and as a result I’ve become a bit like a zombie. At work I find that while I’m guarding I’m all focused and alert, but once I’m back in the office I’ve almost forgotten what I was just doing. School isn’t helping with this and neither are the trainings I’m supposed to be doing at work.

School has been interesting lately. I never expected that I would be doing a drawing for Math class.

January 29th-My tesselation project for Math class. Bird. :) I suppose I could have gotten more creative, but I just wanted to get it done.

January 29th-My tesselation project for Math class. Bird. ๐Ÿ™‚ I suppose I could have gotten more creative, but I just wanted to get it done.

I always look forward to the weekend ’cause it’s when I get to see Peter, but this weekend held so much more than I thought it would.

A good friend of mine (and the family) got engaged this last year and is getting married soon. So I ended up at her house for her bridal shower.

January 31st-Amy with her ribbon bouquet. She's so pretty!

January 31st-Amy with her ribbon bouquet. She’s so pretty!

My sister was very insistant that she wasn’t going to find out the gender of her baby. I was SUPER insistant that she did find out. I have no patience. Haha So she decided to do a Baby Gender Reaveal party. It ended up being more crowded and fun than I thought it would be.

I have been in the room for 7 births. Call me crazy, but it is truly amazing seeing that baby for the first time. Although I don’t enjoy seeing…Well you know. ๐Ÿ˜‰ Anyways-I could go on and on about babies, births, and life but I think that’s more for a blog on it’s own so we’ll move on.

January 30th-Here's the envelope with the results. It was torturous holding it.

January 30th-Here’s the envelope with the results. It was torturous holding it.

I’m going to move fast between days so I can write the other blog I have. There were a couple unexpected things this weekend so I have more pictures. So stay tuned for that.

February 1st-My sister, our friend Amy, and her husband cutting the cake and finding out they are having a 4th GIRL!  My brothers were excited, but they really wanted a boy. haha

February 1st-My sister, our friend Amy, and her husband cutting the cake and finding out they are having a 4th GIRL!
My brothers were excited, but they really wanted a boy. haha

Alright-Who’s a SeaHawks fan?!

February 2nd-Ok...Aparently Amy is the main feature of this blog. Haha Go SeaHawks!!!

February 2nd-Ok…Aparently Amy is the main feature of this blog. Haha Go SeaHawks!!!

Every year I go to our friends house to watch the Super Bowl. I’m not the biggest football person, however I’m a huge sports person having played sports since a kid. Anyway-It was really fun to have a team from close to home go to the Super Bowl and actually win. It was awesome. I did feel a little bad for the Broncos though.

February 3rd-A special package came in the mail today. My cake topper! And it's perfect. I'm sooooo excited to use it at my wedding. I don't know why I had such a hard time finding a topper I liked, but this one is awesome.

February 3rd-A special package came in the mail today. My cake topper! And it’s perfect. I’m sooooo excited to use it at my wedding. I don’t know why I had such a hard time finding a topper I liked, but this one is awesome.

I’m making quite a few big strides in the wedding planning. It’s a lot of work, but I have a lot of people who are always willing to help-which is awesome.

This last week and weekend has left my brain all jumbled, but that could be mostly due to lack of sleep. Hopefully I catch up because I would really rather not get sick.

Tip:ย Got a cold? Eat an Orange…or….Just get a lot of Vitamin C, sleep, and water.

Ok-off to make that other blog!

Case of the “Mondays”

You know that phrase “I’ve got the case of the Mondays”? I have a theory that it actually lasts all week. There is no such thing as “Case of the Mondays” anyway…I’m gonna go with “I have a case of the week days” from now on. Not only does the weekend never last long enough (besides the fact that I work on Saturdays and sometimes Sundays), but the workload always seems to pile up. You catch up on one thing, only to have something else added on.

With wedding planning it gets even more complicated…and then working full time and going to school part time. Today I felt like my head was going to burst after Math class and then I had to go to a training for work and found I hit my limit 10 minutes into the new information. I find myself sitting and staring at a wall not thinking about anything…Either that or repeating “5 months” over and over in my head.

Not to worry! I haven’t gone completely insane. I definitely got a little stressed out there for a minute, but that’s where good friends come in and weekend trips to friends and the fiance. Thank the lord.

January 25th-I went up to see a friend (and my fiance) and spent Saturday with her. We picked out her dress for my wedding and then ended up touring around the mall. The photobooth was hilarious.

January 25th-I went up to see a friend (and my fiance) and spent Saturday with her. We picked out her dress for my wedding and then ended up touring around the mall. The photobooth was hilarious.

My trip up north was successful. I wish I’d had more time to visit my friend as well as Peter, but the time will come where I’m more free to do that.

We went to Davids Bridal and bought her dress for my wedding *Happy Dance* so that’s one down and 5 to go! Is it just me or are the consultants at that place pretty consistently grumpy and/or inattentive? Ok maybe not THAT often, but this chick wasn’t the best. Not only was she grumpy and inattentive but she was really disorganized resulting in us having to come back after we had already gone to dinner and everything. Oy.

Tip of the day:ย 

Don’t listen to the people at Davids Bridal about shipment dates. They’re never right. All they want is to get you to buy the dress, full price, ASAP. Don’t let them be pushy-it isn’t their wedding anyways!

January 26th-Yep...Super lame photo. But it goes to show how big the Seahawks are right now. This was in the news paper (make a Seahawks airplane). I found it a little funny. Go Hawks!

January 26th-Yep…Super lame photo. But it goes to show how big the Seahawks are right now. This was in the news paper (make a Seahawks airplane). I found it a little funny. Go Hawks!

I meant to take better photos of my trip (Peter doesn’t like his photo being taken anyways) but ended up with this photo of something that was in the paper. Who’s excited for the Super Bowl this weekend! Yayah! Go Hawks!

January 27th-I found this hat on Amazon and just had to buy it for my sister. She was so happy she slept in it that night.

January 27th-I found this hat on Amazon and just had to buy it for my sister. She was so happy she slept in it that night.

I don’t know if any of you are Doctor Who? fans, but my sister is. Haha. She was so excited about this hat I bought her. I really need to get back to watching it.

January 28th-I bought these for my wedding. I thought it would make some of the pictures fun. Anyway-here are the nieces modeling some of them for me.

January 28th-I bought these for my wedding. I thought it would make some of the pictures fun. Anyway-here are the nieces modeling some of them for me.

My nieces have been in Canada this last week and so I finally get to see them. They are so cute! Anyways-They modeled the new photo booth props I got for the wedding. I thought it would make some fun photos for that day. ๐Ÿ™‚

 

Anyways-I hope you all are having a good week and not the “case of the weekdays”. Almost to the middle! ๐Ÿ˜€

Au revoir.

 

Extra Tibit:

Anyone ever watch Mr. Bean? I used to love it. Anyways-I ran across this Youtube video of the best stuff. It’s worth a watch if you need a laugh.

hqdefault

Boutonnieres, Candy, and Chinese

This week has brought on a lot of wedding planning, work, and school junk. It’s not that I don’t like wedding planning-it mostly that everyone has an opinion about what I should or shouldn’t do and I find it slightly aggravating.

It will take me a while to get to the point where I can ignore comments and just do what I want. I’ll get there eventually.

January 22nd-I found myself craving M&M's with peanuts after the gym. So I bought some. A lot of them.

January 22nd-I found myself craving M&M’s with peanuts after the gym. So I bought some. A lot of them.

I’m trying to keep on top of the wedding planning. It isn’t easy, but I really want to take advantage of the time I have left so I don’t end up freaking out about these stupid things right before the wedding. I made a commitment to make the bouquets and boutonnieres so I’m not going to waste the money and time I’ve spent on them. I feel pretty happy with the results I have thus far and there’s only a couple finishing touches to add.

January 23rd-I went to my friends house so she could help me making more button flowers for the bouquets and I ended up just making the  boutonnieres. I still have more to make for attendants, moms and such but I have the groomsmen and dads all done. Just need to add leaves, floral tape, and ribbon. :)

January 23rd-I went to my friends house so she could help me making more button flowers for the bouquets and I ended up just making the boutonnieres. I still have more to make for attendants, moms and such but I have the groomsmen and dads all done. Just need to add leaves, floral tape, and ribbon. ๐Ÿ™‚

I went to the gym once this week on top of Yoga. The food aspect of being healthy didn’t work out so well, but I’ll get back on track.

January 24th-My pregnant sister was craving Chinese food so I went to my favorite (Portland) Chinese restaurant. I always have the best leftovers.

January 24th-My pregnant sister was craving Chinese food so I went to my favorite (Portland) Chinese restaurant. I always have the best leftovers.

All in all a successful week. For those of you who live in Portland, I hope you survive the wind. For the rest of you, I hope you have a good weekend.

How to Make Your Own Cake Stand (DIY)

When I was talking to the person I am having make my cake she asked me if I had a cake stand because I’m not planning on having a very big cake which could make it easy for it to get lost. I checked on Etsy and although I found some really great cake stands I was not willing to spend $75-$160 on a cake stand I’ll probably use just for my wedding…And maybe a few times after that.

I can’t take full credit for this idea (although I was trying to figure out a way to make it), but I decided to go to Goodwill and buy a candle stick holder and a glass plate and glue them together.

So here we go!

Supplies:

Glass Epoxy (more permanent) or Hot glue

Candle stick holder

Glass plate

Patience

You can get glue that is also used for fish tanks. It's more permanent, and also water proof.

You can get glue that is also used for fish tanks. It’s more permanent, and also water proof.

First you want to wash the candle stick holder and plate-Especially if it’s from Goodwill! Then dry (duh).

It can be as fancy as you want of course or you could go with a colored plate...just be careful because if the design pops out it makes it hard to keep the plate flat on the candle stick.

It can be as fancy as you want of course or you could go with a colored plate…just be careful because if the design pops out it makes it hard to keep the plate flat on the candle stick.

Put the glue on the rim of the candle stick holder. Try to make it even, but it's not a huge deal as long as the rim is covered. Keep in mind it will spread when the plate is placed on top.

Put the glue on the rim of the candle stick holder. Try to make it even, but it’s not a huge deal as long as the rim is covered. Keep in mind it will spread when the plate is placed on top.

Carefully place the plate on top and press firmly and evenly.

Carefully place the plate on top and press firmly and evenly.

You will need to let it cure for 24 hours. I added glue to it after it was mostly dry just to be sure.

You will need to let it cure for 24 hours.
I added glue to it after it was mostly dry just to be sure.

See? Super easy! And it only cost about $10 and about $5 for the glue. But depending on the plate and holder you get you could probably do it for WAY cheaper.

You can also spray paint it if you want. The sky is the limit on this one. ๐Ÿ™‚

I can’t wait to use this for my wedding, and since I used the epoxy-hopefully many more times. ๐Ÿ˜€

Challenge Accepted!

Happy New Year everyone!

You know…sometimes when I’m browsing facebook everyone is posting things about their plans for the new year and what their new resolutions are. I decided-who cares?! I don’t wanna do anything!

So-that’s what I did. Nothing. Well, not completely. I went up to Olympia to see Pete and we just hung out. It was really nice. Last New Years he proposed so it was an anniversary of sorts.

I haven’t really made any resolutions..Mostly because they’re all things I’ve been trying to put into practice anyway. Things like:

Brush and floss

Keep my room clean (FAIL!)

Put my laundry away right away (Yeah…Fail)

Pass my classes (Success!)

Read my bible everday

And as life continues on I add things as I go like:

Don’t bust out of my wedding dress (So far so good)

Save money for wedding (How does that work when you’re currently paying for the wedding? I’ll add that to my questions to be answered list)

Be a good fiance and eventually good wife

and finally-this photo challenge. ๐Ÿ™‚

So it begins.

Poor Peter hates his photo being taken. I feel i’ve been quite nice to him since we first got together. But I warned him he would have to participate. He said he forgives me.

January 1st-Peter and I glare at eachother. Yep. I love him.  I'll try and keep the sappy comments to my self.

January 1st-Peter and I glare at eachother. Yep. I love him.
I’ll try and keep the sappy comments to my self.

Today I finally e-mailed the deacons at my church to reserve it for my wedding. I know…I’m a slacker. But I’ve been quite productive today at work and at home.

Ok..That’s not completely true. Unless you consider napping productive. Which I do. So there.

January 2nd-I've been reading through the wedding policy for my church to make sure I cover everything. Someone told me it's a right of passage. Ha!

January 2nd-I’ve been reading through the wedding policy for my church to make sure I cover everything. Someone told me it’s a right of passage. Ha!

Well that’s all for now. And so the year goes on. See you all for the next post.